A strong marriage is one that involves both people who are able to face the highs and lows of life together. This relationship is all about being able to balance each other without losing sight of the ultimate goal of living the best life you can together.
Some people may not realize that their outlook on life can lead to major issues in their marriage. Having a strong negative bias can harm a relationship because of the tendency to focus on negative experiences. In some cases, neuroticism is the underlying cause of the negativity.
Why does neuroticism mean trouble for a marriage?
A person who has neuroticism is likely highly reactive and has some emotional instability that makes it hard for them to react in a suitable way when things in the marriage get stressful. Because they tend to have such a negative outlook on life, they may overreact to even minor inconveniences.
The pessimism can filter into their marriage, which can decrease their satisfaction in the relationship. They may experience tension, anxiety and problems with self-esteem. All of this can make them unrealistically sensitive to normal things that happen in life.
Anyone who’s dealing with major dissatisfaction in their marriage may be considering divorce. Understanding their rights and responsibilities surrounding ending the marriage may help them to plan out their next steps. Because these matters can become so complex, working with someone who’s familiar with the state laws and can assist with the process is beneficial.