One of the first things divorcing spouses think about after agreeing to end their marriage is living arrangements. Where will each of them live until the divorce is finalized?
If this is your concern, here are two options to consider:
1. Remain in the family home
If you and your spouse can remain in the marital home during your divorce, this can be your first option. One of you can move to the guest bedroom while the other remains in the master bedroom. If you live in a big house, you can operate from different parts. For example, one of you can move to the guest house or basement.
This option can save you money and maintain a sense of stability for your child if you have one. However, you need to set boundaries to enjoy these benefits. For instance, you should respect each other’s designated areas – avoid entering one’s defined areas without permission or going through their belongings. Further, discuss how to use communal areas to avoid misunderstandings.
If you have a child, you should have a temporary parenting plan. Agree on who will help them with homework on Tuesday or watch a movie with them on Saturday.
2. Move out
If remaining under the same roof is not the best option in your case, one of you can move to a separate residence. You don’t need to buy a house or lease an apartment immediately. You can look for an affordable, decent temporary rental to live in until the divorce is finalized. If you have kids, consider a residence close to the family home. You can even stay with family or friends.
It’s crucial to choose an appropriate living arrangement when going through a divorce. You should also learn more about the divorce process to determine how to maintain your living standard after the divorce.